I blame the parents
...is a typical voice heard during this silly season's infatuation with "yoof" culture, but could someone enlighten me on it's meaning - is it:
- I attribute these events to the causal influence of bad parenting
or
- I hold the parents responsible
Let's look at the latter, which seems in no way controversial, since if children were responsible for their actions, they wouldn't be children. The distinction between adult and child is that the former takes responsibility for the latter until maturity. But if we hold parents responsible, the question is Who are the parents?
A parent is simply someone who nurtures a child, and would seem to include the following criteria: financially support; educate; provide moral guidance. Parenting clearly doesn't require biological production, but is mainly a legal position regarding overall responsibility for a child. The greater the size of the welfare state, the greater the parenting role that the state assumes. The causation is important, but it's clear that regions of social depravity coincide with where the state attempts to act as parent.
I'm not trying to make a James Bartholomew argument here, I'm simply asserting that in many parts of the country, the state really does act as parent. If I really wanted to press home this point, I'd say that the state kidnaps babies, but I wouldn't want to offend the sensibilities of our emotionally-charged readership.
What's my point? Well, that during this years silly season the primary issue seems to be the utter failure of the state to successfully parent, that the reason for this is because the state doesn't accept any responsibility as a parent, and that this is all the more ironic now that politics has "returned" from its summer holiday to sort out the problem.
In The Telegraph Brown says,
I want us not to be in any way sectional but be a government that genuinely unifies the country
The implicit assumption here is that the government has the capacity and rights to provide an underlying moral/social order, and the complete dismissal that for many people it is parents, and not the state, who should provide this. Does anyone else not see the irony of a politician using a particular ideological position to argue for unity? Wouldn't we all realise the absurdity of the Archbishop of Canterbury declaring
I want us not to be in any way sectional but be a religion that genuinely unifies the country
Of course if this was just pub talk it'd be amusing. When socialists spend their student days philosophising we can realise that it's just a phase they're going through, even though about a quarter of our country will be able to find a subsidised, un aproductive, life career. The majority will find genuine employment, and actually pay for the nations public services. However it's not pub talk. We cannot all just "agree to disagree", because the political classes presuppose a political solution. So allow me the opportunity to make two simple points:
- Don't become a parent unless you're willing to accept responsibility
- Don't assume that everyone shares your values
Society depends on it.
Update: I've clarified some of the above in light of constructive comments
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